A New Perspective

Isn't it just lovely when we notice how the Universe is supporting our requests? (Keyword here is notice). I admit to often speeding through life, not noticing the support that is right beside me. And then, something happens and I notice. And am so grateful. This happened this week.

In my last post, I admitted to feeling very vulnerable and scared while experiencing all the changes in my life at this time. It helped a bit just to write the words - holding all this in takes so much energy with very little return. And then, the most caring help arrived, completely unexpectedly.

A few years ago, a friend gave me Mark Nepo's book, "The Book of Awakening".

I love how beautifully he writes, but sometimes weeks go by without me picking up these words of wisdom. However, a few days ago, I just randomly opened the book (it's compiled with dated, daily thoughts) to August 5 and began reading.

I'm going to just copy what Mark says, as I can't imagine adding to his words.

The Chick being born ~

Every crack is also an opening.

When in the midst of great change, it is helpful to remember how a chick is born. From the view of the chick, it is a terrifying struggle. Confined and curled in a dark shell, half-formed, the chick eats all its food and stretches to the contours of its shell. It begins to feel hungry and cramped. Eventually, the chick begins to starve and feels suffocated by the ever-shrinking space of its world.

Finally, its own growth begins to crack the shell, and the world as the chick knows it is coming to an end. Its sky is falling. As the chick wriggles through the cracks, it begins to eat its shell. In that moment – growing but fragile, starving and cramped, its world breaking – the chick must feel like it is dying. Yet once everything it has relied on falls away, the chick is born. It doesn’t die, but falls into the world.

The lesson is profound. Transformation always involves the falling away of things we have relied on, and we are left with a feeling that the world as we know it is coming to an end, because it is.

Yet the chick offers us the wisdom that the way to be born while still alive is to eat our own shell. When faced with great change – in self, in relationship, in our sense of calling – we somehow must take in all that has enclosed us, nurtured us, incubated us, so when the new life is upon us, the old is within us.

Thank you so much, Mark